A diagnosis of kidney disease often comes as a shock, but you do not have to face it alone. Our Facebook community is made up of thousands of people who are living with kidney disease and kidney failure. We recently asked what advice they would give someone who is newly diagnosed.
If you are new to kidney disease, take some great advice from people who have been there, and "Like" our Facebook page to join an active and caring community of people with kidney disease as well as family members, friends and caregivers who share information about living with kidney disease and encourage one another to stay strong in the fight.
1. Educate yourself.
Knowledge is power, and it can help you overcome feelings of helplessness in the face of kidney disease. "Be proactive and learn everything you can about your disease," says Ann. Countless others agree. "Educate yourself and then make sure those who are your support system educate themselves, too," says Linda.
2. Follow your doctor's orders.
Kidney disease does not always lead to kidney failure. Your doctor may tell you to take medicine or make changes to your diet and lifestyle. This can help keep your kidneys healthier longer, or even stop your kidney damage from getting worse. "Do whatever your doc says to do so it doesn't progress to where you need dialysis," says Michele. "Comply with doctor's orders, get exercise and eat right, and take your medications correctly," says Beth.
3. Stick to the food and fluid plan recommended by your doctor and dietitian
When you have kidney disease, following a kidney-friendly food and fluid plan is important to keep you healthy and help protect your kidneys from further damage. A kidney-friendly food and fluid plan limits certain foods to prevent minerals in those foods from building up in your body. Watching what you eat and drink will help you stay healthier.
"Eat the diet best for your diagnosis," says Linda. "Be mindful of everything you put in your mouth and how it will affect your kidneys," adds Crystal.
Nadir says he was diagnosed with stage 3 kidney disease in 2004 and has been successful in keeping it from getting worse. "Watching what you eat and drink helps tremendously," he says.
4. Understand your blood work.
When you have kidney disease, your lab work becomes very important because your numbers are used to gauge whether your disease is stable or getting worse. Your health care provider will test your blood and urine regularly, and will monitor your blood sugar (if you have diabetes) and blood pressure.
"Know what the lab numbers mean, as those numbers can help gauge where you are medically," says Linda.
"Get familiar with your blood work values and know what they mean," recommends Beth. "Call your doctor after every blood draw to learn results and ask how you should adjust diet or medications."
5. Ask for help.
Do not try to go it alone! "Have a great support team behind you and keep fighting," says Lisa. Others say you will have good days and bad days, and it is important to lean on your support network. "Accept help when you are run down," says Jessica. "Allow your loved ones to be involved and help you when you need it," says Tonya. "Stay strong and get support from friends and family," says Lisa.
Many people with kidney disease acknowledge the need for emotional support, as well. "When you get angry or just plain depressed, please talk to somebody," says Debbie. Todd's advice: "Find a local support group. If you do not have one, join this page and others. The people who walk in your shoes daily offer support and advice that doctors cannot always give!"
6. Advocate for yourself.
Advocating for yourself means making sure you are getting the care you need. Speaking up and asking questions are part of advocating for yourself. "You will learn that nobody knows your body better than you, not even your doctor," says Brenna. "If something doesn't feel right, look into it."
"Don't be afraid to ask questions and speak up when something is wrong or unclear," says Julia. "No question is stupid," notes Nancy. "Know all of your options and ask questions."
7. Stay active.
Many people living with kidney disease say that being active helps them feel better. "Stay active," says Leslie. "Find things you enjoy doing that keep you moving each day and get an adequate amount of sleep each night."
It is important to ask your doctor about exercise before you begin any new routine. Recognizing that kidney disease and heart disease often go together, Mollyn says, "Moving forward, your main focus needs to be keeping your HEART healthy."
8. Plan ahead.
Even with the best medical care, some people who have kidney disease will eventually have to face living with kidney failure. Learning about the treatment options for kidney failure and preparing for dialysis and/or a transplant can help you to make the best decisions for yourself if your kidney disease progresses.
"Start planning to get on the transplant list as early as possible to have less waiting time and dialysis," says Beckie. "Try to stay healthy until you get your transplant so you will be ready."
You can learn more about the treatment options for kidney failure on our website.
9. Stay positive.
"Attitude is everything!" says Mayra. She and many others know from experience that keeping a positive attitude, even if you are not feeling well, is what keeps you going. Many find strength in faith, while others simply continue to do things they love. "Positive feelings through music," says Ben. "Listen to reggae, paint, create something beautiful!" According to Tonya, "Keeping a journal could help with emotional stress."
Mollyn offers words of encouragement: "You can live a healthy and happy life with kidney disease. It just takes you being an active participant in your own health care team."